How To Turn A Staycation Into a Real Vacation
We decided to do a staycation this summer. Following two exotic trips over the winter (Guadeloupe and Senegal), plus our spring break jaunt to Pittsburgh, we opted to be relatively frugal and save up for bigger trips again over fall and winter breaks.
We wanted it to feel like a real vacation, though, not just a week hanging around the house. One goal was to find things to do that felt novel and a little indulgent– the types of things that provide good fodder for a “What I Did on My Summer Vacation” essay. The other was to keep us away from everyday chores.
Here were some parameters we set to make sure our week felt like real vacation. I hope it gives you some good staycation ideas for your family.
Our staycation tips
Home Sweet Vacation Home
We cheated a little and based ourselves at Richard’s parents’ weekend house near Danbury, Connecticut, about 70 miles from home. Traffic in and out of Brooklyn is always awful in the summer, so by shifting ourselves a bit north it was faster and easier to get places. Plus, the house is central to the Connecticut Coast, a dozen state parks, the Massachusetts Berkshires and New York’s Hudson Valley, providing easy access to a wide variety of day trips. We consider it a staycation because we were so close to home. and we still had the challenge of resisting work, DIY projects and housework and had to create a novel, vacation vibe in completely familiar surroundings.
To mix things up a bit we did spend two nights away from “home.” A night in a hotel in Mystic allowed us to do more in the area and made the four-hour round-trip drive more worthwhile. Camping in a nearby state park was purely fun, to give our daughter a chance to make “lazy man” s’mores, cook over a fire and sleep outdoors.
We agreed we would leave the house every day. If we didn’t it was too easy to succumb to the call of the laundry, email, conference calls (Richard) and endless social media demands (me).
We also resigned ourselves to the fact that we would both check in to work every day. We were home and we could, and when we don’t catching up is too insane when vacation is over. Luckily, Tiny Traveler sleeps like a teenager so it was easy to get this daily check-in out of the way while waiting for her to wake up mid-morning.
Do Plan Things To Do:
We had planned at the outset to do quite a bit during our Connecticut staycation, heading off in the car every day to museums and aquariums and a waterpark. Then the weather, schedule changes at some attractions and Tiny Traveler’s inclinations changed our plans considerably.
In the end. we only did two big excursions. We went to Mystic to visit the Seaport Museum and go paddleboarding. And we visited the Old Rhinebeck Aerodrome in the Hudson Valley to see its antique airplane flight show. These activities naturally provided some of the highlights of our week: TT could tell her friends she saw whale vomit (amber gris), Rich tried paddleboarding for the first tome, and we saw genuine WWI fighter planes actually fly.
But aside from that, we spent most of our time hiking and river-wading. Connecticut has a plethora of state parks, rivers and waterfalls. Some days we only traveled a few minutes from home and still had an adventure.
This turned out to be a better staycation then the one we’d planned. Tiny Traveler had a blast splashing in rivers, learning to skip stones, finding frogs and rock climbing. We saved quite a bit of money on all those activities we didn’t get to. And best of all, we relaxed much more than we do when we’re sightseeing like mad.
I have to say that it’s easier to change course, alter your plans considerably and take it in stride on a staycation then when you’ve traveled to a destination and have your money and time invested in seeing and doing certain things.
One of the best ways to feel you’re on vacation is to eat better than you normally do. So we cooked when we felt like it and ate out when we didn’t — including an indulgent diner breakfast of waffles and omelets after a rough night sleeping in the tent. We ate very good ice cream every day, including raspberry ice cream we made. One night we bought New England steamer clams and lobsters, shrimp and farm-stand corn to cook at home; the quintessential New England Summer feast on our back porch.
We also watched Netflix while we ate dinner most nights we were home, something we don’t normally do. We all got caught in the Great British Baking Show, betting on who was a goner each night and whooping it up for the eventual winner.
Our next vacation will certainly involve airplane tickets (it’s already planned). But it’s nice to know that when we need to, we can find adventure in our own backyard.
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Our staycation itinerary and budget.
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