Readying the Backseat For Family Road Trips
We’ve taken some pretty long road trips as family travelers. Six hours to Montral, seven to Pittsburgh and more than nine to the Outer Banks, just to name a few. We are those crazy parents who try to avoid handing our child an electronic screen the second the key is in the ignition, so we’ve learned a lot about what entertains kids during long spells in the car.
We’ve seen Tiny Traveler evolve from stickers and Play-Doh to Wikki Stix and 20 Questions, to coding apps and books. Here is a run down of what we’ve packed in the back seat for these long car journeys.
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Things To Put Things In
I didn’t give much thought to backseat storage until we had a kid in the car. I’ve tried a few different things, and the best thing for us so far has been a basic plastic bin.
It’s easy to remove to shake out crumbs, give it a rinse and cull the odd things that accumulate. It can go on the seat or on the floor. And if you’ve more than one kid in the car, it creates space between them.
It’s handy to have something to throw trash into, too. Otherwise by the end of the trip the back floor is a sea of food wrappers, dried out markers and half-eaten cookies.
Particularly for winter road trips, but in the cool weather, too, my kid loves to have something snug in the car. It used to be stuffed animal. For some kid it’s that favorite super-soft hoodie.
Lately, Tween Traveler brings her favorite fleece throw into the car, especially if we’re traveling at night. She doesn’t sleep in the car very much any more, but having something to snuggle under helps.
Since kids rarely wear their coats in the car, packing something warm and snug means we don’t have to blast the heat up front.
Food, Glorious Food
I always stash a food bag in the car that has a mix of salty, sweet and healthy snacks. I usually include something we don’t often eat at home, like Pepperidge Farm Milanos or kettle-cooked potato chips. I also pack single-serving cereal boxes, Z-Bars, pretzels, nut mixes, Annie’s Bunny Mix and dried-fruit and fruit strips.
I used to put a 6-pack of water bottles in the car before a trip, but last winter I kept forgetting to bring them into the hotel overnight and so was driving around with a 6-pack of bottled ice for most of our trips.
In an attempt to make our road-trips more eco-friendly, now I just fill reusable water bottles. Tiny Traveler’s insulated Thermos bottle actually kept her water from freezing despite some really low temperatures. And my hot and cold water bottle works for both morning tea and water.
Read more: Keeping Your Family Healthy on Road Trips
Dear Diary, Car Trips Are So Boring…
I hadn’t really thought of diaries for a 7-year-old, but I’d seen a wide range of them at the Toy Fair this year and learned most were strong sellers.
I particularly liked Klutz’s All About Me diary, which is filled with questions to answer about oneself instead of blank space.
Tiny Traveler sat in the back seat for more than hour at a time, reading and scribbling away, in love with the idea of having secrets from us.
Pack colored pencils and a sharpener along with the diary. They’re good for writing, drawing and coloring. Plus, they don’t melt like crayons or dry out like markers.
Books To Read or Listen To
As Tiny Traveler has outgrown her motion sickness (mostly) she’s begun reading on road trips.
The challenge these days is making sure she packs enough books to last through a week-long vacation. One five-hour stretch can get her most of the way through a book she really likes.
She’s also taken to tucking a flashlight into the backseat so she can read after dark.
Friends point out that a Kindle is ideal for travel because you can bring 1 book or 10 and it weighs the same. Plus it’s easy to download something new whenever you want to. I think there are a lot of good reasons for kids to read physical books, but I can appreciate the advantages of an e-reader for travel.
One a few trips I brought books to read out loud. I thought we’d take turns but I wound up doing most of the reading. The obviously more modern way to do is to get books on CD from the library or download an app like Audible, that lets you list to books on your phone via a subscription similar to Netflix.
If you’ve never used it before, time your sign-up so that your free first month coincides with a road trip.
Brainstorm Road-Trip Games
On a five-hour drive, Rich and I run out of things to do, too, so we don’t mind playing easy road-trip games like I Spy and 20 Questions. We’ve recently added Packing for Paris, where everyone takes turns adding items to the suitcase in alphabetical order, like apples, Band-Aids, cuddly toys, etc.. We vary the game with cooking and zoo themes, pretty much anything you can list.
On this trip we also tried a card game called Beat the Parents. Parents and kids take turns posing multiple-choice questions about themselves. The rest of the family has to guess what they think the reader will answer.
I’ve seen a few variations on this type of game, and I don’t think this one was the best. Too many questions had no good answer or too many.
Peaceable Kingdom has a similar game called “This or That” that looks like it’s designed better. If you are looking for a road-trip gift for a kid, pick this. You can’t easily keep score in the car but the questions in these games can spur conversation and laughs and they pass the time.
Busy Hands = Happy Kids
We also tried Zoob. The interlocking plastic pieces come with a booklet showing all kinds of fanciful things you can make (a dinosaur, a rocket-man, a kayaker).
Tiny Traveler was mostly interested in making sticks of various sizes, but these sticks filled a wide variety of imaginary purposes (shooting aliens, making candy, tickling the parent sitting in front of her).
So even if her design ambitions were more modest than I hoped, it entertained her. We still have these in the car four years later, which tells you something.
Cat’s Cradle, Chenile Craft Sticks (pipe cleaners0 and Wikki Stix serve the same purpose. But don’t leave the wax wikki stix in the sun; they melt.
Tiny Traveler also likes looking at road maps and trying to figure out where we are and where we’re going. In the age of cell phones and GPS these old-school navigational tools are a novelty.
Plan B: Technology
When Tiny Traveler was 6 or 7YO I dug up my old iPod and put three songs on it (they were all from Frozen). We’ve since bought her a new Shuffle to which she’s added songs from Annie, Into the Woods and songs from other shows she’s be performed in or had a chance to see.
The good news is that Tiny Traveler can throw on headphones and listen to these songs over and over for hours. The bad news is that while she’s listening on her headphones she has a tendency to sing…loudly…and not particularly well…for hours at a time.
You win some, you lose some.
My iPad contains a bunch of educational games Tiny Traveler largely ignores, four Disney apps and two Lillifee apps she plays and a handful of favorite television shows. Jigsaw puzzle apps are handy in the car (and often free), so three of the above apps include puzzles.
Rich has Train Yard and FarbenBlind on his phone, too. They’re brainteaser games that she’ll play.
For the last leg of the drive home, when she’d run out of things to do (and sing), we let her watch Sophia the First and play “Minnie’s Bow Maker.”
As she’s gotten older, coding and video-filming and editing apps have largely replaced the games and Disney shows. She’s created all kinds of movie shorts in the back seat for her own amusement.
I still try to hold the iPad/iPhone in reserve because videos, games the other apps she likes run your battery down very fast. I don’t want to find myself stuck in a traffic jam miles from home with a pent-up kid and no juice.
What do you pack for your car trips these days? And what have you learned to leave home?