Thanks to SeaWorld and a renowned Zoo, San Diego is a rather obvious kid-friendly destination. But this west coast city offers a lot more than pandas and Shamu’s latest tricks, and lesser known attractions can make for a mellow family vacation. Here are my favorite things to do in San Diego with my preschool-age twins. (Visiting San Diego? Read more about Southern California.)

The Best Things To Do in San Diego with Toddlers

Get Outdoors

San Diego has a perfect climate for outdoor family time nearly all year long. We also have miles of beaches and parks. Our favorite beach is Windansea Beach in La Jolla.

It’s one of the most popular beaches, which is kind of the point. Its sleepy, private quality makes it beautiful and manageable with small children.

Windansea beach in san diego

The middle section of the cove is the best sand castle terrain. We also spend time at the rocky edges of the cove, where the kids like to climb while we enjoy the scenic view (with one eye on the boys, of course). We’ve had many dolphin sightings from there.

Tip: Be prepared to have no public restrooms.

For waterfront without the beach, we love Liberty Station in Point Loma.

It used to be a Navy Training Center, and is now a family destination with restaurants, shops and tons of open, grassy space that is perfect for flying kites. It’s also a great spot for picnicking or just walking with a stroller.

Make the Most of Rainy Days

Rainy days don’t happen often in San Diego, but when they do, our favorite indoor space is the Reuben H. Fleet Science Center, an awesome hands-on science museum in Balboa Park.

Kids tinkering in san diego

It has something for kids of all ages. Kid City is perfect for the under-5 set. The planetarium can be too dark for them. Older kids love it, along with the main science center and IMAX theater.

Local parents also love the children’s area at the Coronado Public Library.  On Tuesdays and Thursdays during the summer they offer activities like arts & crafts, magic shows, cooking classes, and story time.

Let the Kids Stay Up Late

Our favorite spots for enjoying an evening picnic include the cove at Solana Beach, Del Mar’s Powerhouse Park or the Organ Pavilion in Balboa Park. During the summer, these three parks often hold free family friendly concerts.

Camp fire on a beach in san diego

Tip: We always pack a warm blanket and sweaters along with dinner and snacks in case the fog rolls in, which is often does.

We also enjoy beach bonfires or making s’mores over barbeque coals at one of the waterfront areas along Mission Bay. SeaWorld puts on a fireworks show almost every night throughout the summer, and it can be seen from almost any spot here.

Don’t Forget to Eat

Station Tavern & Burgers in South Park has mastered the family dining experience.  Adults and kids enjoy comfort food in an outdoor dining area.   It’s like a big backyard with picnic tables and great food.

While your waiting for your food relax with a constantly changing selection of local and craft beers. Your kids will quickly run off to the adjacent play area.

Tip: Order a side of tater tots: These are not the tater tots you remember from the school cafeteria!

Have A Date Night

Whether you want a downtown vibe or something beachy and casual, there are so many great restaurants in San Diego, it’s a great place for a vacation date night. Burlap in Carmel Valley puts a hip Asian twist on surf and turf and is one of our favorite spots

Tip: Leave the comfy mom shoes in your suitcase; the bar is a bit of a scene.

After dinner, we love the very grown-up movie experience at Cinepolis in Del Mar. The movies are your usual multiplex options.

But I have to warn you: Once you settle into the theater’s super comfy, reclining, leather seats with a glass of wine from the drink service you might have a hard time staying awake for the film!

(Read our advice on hiring vacation babysitters.)

Get Out of Town

If you have more than a weekend, take some time to venture out of the city via the Amtrak Pacific Surfliner.

Windansea beach san diego

San Juan Capistrano, a small beach town 90 minutes from San Diego, has some of the most panoramic coastline views in California. In March, a festival and parade celebrate the return of the town’s famous swallows.

Our kids love the train, but when we really want to make their day we stop at ZooMars Petting Zoo across the tracks from the San Juan Capistrano train station. Kids can ride a pony, pet guinea pigs, and feed the rabbits. When you’re done for the day, it’s an easy (perhaps sleepy) ride back to town.

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Lynn Perkins is a San Diego native, mom of 4-year-old twin boys, and a co-founder of, an online babysitting service.

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